It’s 2025, and we’re still whispering the word orgasm like it’s a dirty little secret? Nah, not on our watch.
This International Female Orgasm Day, we’re going full volume - because women’s pleasure deserves way more spotlight, way fewer myths, and zero shame.
So… why are we still talking about this?
Because the orgasm gap is real. In heterosexual sex, men orgasm nearly every time. Women? Not so much. But in queer relationships, that gap shrinks. Why? Because female pleasure is prioritised, not treated like an optional bonus round.
Your pleasure is not a puzzle. It’s a right.
Clitoral Stimulation: Let’s Set the Record Straight
Here’s the truth: vaginal orgasms are rare.
Clitoral orgasms? Far more common.
And yet somehow, most sex ed skips over that entire body part. The clitoris isn’t just a button - it’s a whole internal structure packed with pleasure potential.
Whether it’s your fingers, a partner’s tongue, or a bullet that never lets you down — know what works for you. Explore it. Own it. Celebrate it.
Common Orgasm Myths (and Why They’re Trash)
🚫 “I should orgasm during penetration.”
Nope. Around 75% of women don’t - and that’s totally normal.
🚫 “Toys mean something’s wrong with me.”
Toys = tools. And tools make everything better. You’re just efficient.
🚫 “I take too long.”
There’s no clock on pleasure. Two minutes or twenty? Both valid.
🚫 “I’ve never had one - am I broken?”
Not at all. You might just need more time, less pressure, or a totally different approach. Your journey is yours.
Want to Start Exploring?
✨ Try a suction toy for pinpoint clitoral stimulation
✨ Bullet vibes = underrated classics
✨ Wands for deep, rumbly magic (even through clothes)
✨ Use a water-based lube — always. Trust us.
And if you're not sure what to try? That’s where we come in. 💁♀️
Female pleasure is powerful. It’s personal. And it’s political.
Every time you prioritise your own orgasm, you're saying, “I matter. My body matters. My pleasure matters.”
So celebrate your body. Your needs. Your curiosity. This is your permission slip to explore whatever feels right - no guilt, no pressure, just pure empowerment.
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From all of us at My Devilish Desires
Here’s to pleasure without apology. 💦