Foreplay and Kissing: Why Aren’t People Doing It? – My Devilish Desires
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two men kissing each other. one has his back to the camera and you can see his side from the back, the other you can see his right side profile. both have short hair. one man has his hand around other ones neck.

Why Aren’t People Kissing Anymore? The Forgotten Art of Foreplay

When did kissing become the starter everyone skips? 


At My Devilish Desires, we see it far too often. People rush straight to the main event, forgetting that a good kiss is the spark that can set foreplay on fire. 

Kissing isn’t just sweet or soft – it’s one of the most powerful tools for building sexual tension, intimacy and serious anticipation. Let’s break down why kissing is the foreplay move most people are ignoring, and how you can use it to turn every encounter into something unforgettable. 

1. Kissing Builds Anticipation (And You Want Anticipation) 

Nothing teases the body like slow, deliberate kisses. A kiss on the neck, the ear, the inner thigh – that’s where you make your partner crave more. Don’t rush straight to oral, let your lips do the work first.  

2. Kissing Creates Connection 

Foreplay isn’t just about physical touch. It’s emotional too. A deep, sensual kiss builds intimacy and ramps up arousal. Quick pecks or full-on make-outs – either way, kissing keeps you connected. 

3. Kiss Everywhere (Not Just Lips) 

Stop limiting yourself. Our recent TikTok shows how kissing those overlooked spots – thighs before oral, collarbone, ears, spine – makes all the difference. Slow, teasing, deliberate. That’s what turns foreplay into something electric. 

4. Let Kissing Set the Pace 

Your kiss controls the rhythm. Start slow and soft, then speed up when it’s time to turn up the heat. Watch how to master it on our Reel.

5. Mix Kissing with Toys 

Kissing + toys = absolute magic. Imagine trailing kisses down their body while your favourite toy does its thing. It’s a sensory overload. Browse our range and watch how we show it off here. 

Silhouette of a couple kissing in front of a softly lit lamp in a dark room.

 

Final Thoughts: 

Stop rushing past kissing like it’s optional. It’s the key to better foreplay, deeper intimacy and unforgettable pleasure. 

Follow us on TikTok and Instagram to stay updated on all our kissing tips, foreplay tricks and naughty advice. Trust us – your lips deserve more. 

FAQs: Kissing & Foreplay 

1. Why is kissing important in foreplay? 

Kissing is crucial in foreplay because it builds sexual tension, increases intimacy and sets the tone for the rest of the encounter. Slow, sensual kisses can heighten anticipation, making every touch that follows feel more intense. Incorporating kissing into foreplay allows you to explore your partner’s body and establish a deeper connection. 

 

2. Where are the best places to kiss during foreplay? 

Don’t stop at the lips. Some of the most sensitive spots include the neck, ears, inner thighs, collarbone and spine. Kissing these areas during foreplay keeps things exciting and teases your partner in all the right ways. 

 

3. How can I make kissing more exciting in the bedroom? 

Change up the rhythm. Start slow and soft, then build intensity. Pair your kisses with toys or sensory play for maximum effect. Consider kissing different parts of the body to surprise and tease your partner. We offer plenty of tips on our socials – follow us to stay inspired. 

 

4. Can kissing enhance the use of sex toys during foreplay? 

Absolutely. Kissing complements sex toys perfectly. While your partner enjoys the sensations from their favourite toy, kissing different areas of their body creates a full-body experience. This combination of touch and vibration can elevate foreplay to unforgettable levels. Browse our range of pleasure toys at My Devilish Desires to explore the possibilities. 

With a wink and a devilish grin,  

Matilda at My Devilish Desires

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