So… how’s it going?
Feeling a little frustrated? A little desperate? A little obsessed with your keyholder’s every move?
Welcome to Locktober, babe. You’re right where you’re meant to be.
Whether you’re halfway through your first full month of chastity or you’ve been here before and love the tease of denial, this time of year is all about surrendering, submitting, and seriously stretching your limits—both physical and mental.
Let’s talk about how to survive the second half of Locktober—and maybe enjoy it a little more than you want to admit. 😉
Locktober Isn’t Just About Being Denied—It’s About Being Owned
This isn’t just about locking up a cock and throwing away the key. It’s about:
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Power exchange
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Mental submission
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Craving permission
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Obsession, ritual, and control
If you’re a keyholder, you’re not just keeping the key—you’re keeping the control. Every denied orgasm, every teasing text, every “you don’t get to decide” moment? That’s where the magic is.
Keyholder Tips: Be Kind… and a Little Cruel 💋
If you’re holding the key, here are a few ways to play the long game:
🔐 Check-ins with zero reward – “How are you feeling?” (And then say “good boy/girl” and nothing else.)
📵 Digital denial – Send them something hot… and tell them not to touch themselves while reading it.
🎯 Tasks & punishments – Give them challenges. Fail, and they earn a spanking or a week extension.
🎁 Unlock days with a twist – Maybe you do unlock them… but no orgasms allowed. Or maybe it’s ruined only. You’re the boss.
Locked & Struggling? You’re Not Alone
Chastity—especially long-term—can really mess with your head (in the hottest way possible).
Here’s how to keep your sanity while locked:
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Write a “lock journal” – track your frustration, arousal, dreams, and all the naughty thoughts you can’t act on.
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Channel it into service or submission – clean the house, massage your partner, be their devoted little toy.
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Edge (if allowed) – Or be told to edge and then stop. The frustration is the point.
Q&A: Locktober Edition
Q: Is it normal to feel super emotional while locked?
A: Yes! Chastity play can stir up all sorts of feelings—horniness, frustration, vulnerability, devotion. It’s part of the power exchange, and why check-ins are so important.
Q: How long is too long to stay locked?
A: That depends on your device, your body, and your dynamic. Always prioritise hygiene, comfort, and communication. Some people go a weekend. Some do months. Listen to your body.
Q: Can you still enjoy sex while locked?
A: Absolutely. Chastity doesn’t mean no intimacy. You can still kiss, touch, be teased, be used, and crave everything you can’t have.
Locktober isn’t for the faint-hearted—but that’s kind of the point, isn’t it? It’s a delicious challenge, a surrender to control, a test of will, and a celebration of submission.
So whether you're a keyholder basking in power or a locked-up submissive counting the days, just remember: the tease is the reward.
You’re doing amazing, and the best part?
There’s still time left to make them beg even harder.
From all of us at My Devilish Desires
Keep it locked. Keep it hot. And keep playing with power.
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