Let’s be real - if you can make time to binge-watch three seasons of that random show on Netflix, you can absolutely make time to tick a few spicy things off your bedroom bucket list. And no, we’re not talking about skydiving (unless that’s your kink 👀).
We’re talking about the real list. The one that lives in your imagination, your fantasies, and maybe your saved folders.
So, in the name of exploration and good sex energy, here’s your Sexy Bucket List: 10 fun, flirty, and slightly filthy things to try before the year ends:
1. Have Morning Sex… Without Rushing
Not just a quickie—make it a moment. Slow, sleepy, messy hair, lazy kisses, and no alarms allowed. Coffee can wait.
2. Use a Toy You’ve Never Tried Before
Never used a suction toy? A prostate massager? Nipple clamps? Now is your time, love. The world of pleasure is big—you’ve only scratched the surface.
3. Try Mutual Masturbation
It’s not just hot—it’s educational. Watching each other can unlock new levels of confidence and desire. Plus, you get a literal front-row seat.
4. Have Sex Somewhere Unexpected (But Safe)
Backseat? Balcony? Kitchen? Hotel shower? Think less public risk, more private thrill. Changing location changes the vibe instantly.
5. Write Down a Fantasy and Hand It to Them
No pressure to act it out (but like… maybe?). Just the act of sharing can build intimacy and open a whole new door.
6. Go Commando on a Night Out
Ditch the underwear, dress up, and let your partner know. Every whisper, every touch, every look? It’s all foreplay now.
7. Try a Tease-and-Deny Game
Set a timer. No orgasms allowed until it buzzes. Build the tension, break the rules (or don’t), and enjoy the slow burn.
8. Make a “Yes, No, Maybe” List Together
This one’s sexy and helpful. Sit down and write out what you’d love to try, what’s off-limits, and what you’re curious about. You might be surprised what turns them on.
9. Watch or Read Something Steamy Together
Pick a spicy book or erotic short film and see what ideas pop up. Sometimes a little outside inspiration is all it takes to unlock a new fantasy.
10. Have a Full Day of No Pants
You heard us. No pants. At home. All day. Just undies, robes, or absolutely nothing. Let the freedom—and the flirtation—begin.
Bonus: Sign Up for a Kink Workshop or Sex-Ed Event
Learn something new together. Rope basics, spanking technique, oral confidence—whatever makes you feel curious or bold. Sexy and smart.
The best part about a sexy bucket list? It’s totally yours. No pressure. No judgment. Just fun, exploration, and a bit of “what if…” energy to shake up your routine and bring you (and maybe your partner) a little closer.
So… what’s going on your list?
From all of us at My Devilish Desires
Explore slowly, play boldly, and always, always choose pleasure. 💋